How to build a relationship with your crush....





Are you really interested in someone and that someone is not so interested in you? Its okay, happens most of the time. Here we give you some tips on how to get close with your crush.

1. Observe..

Yup, observe her closely and don't try to be creepy. Just observe her and make sure she doesn't notice.
Understand her likes, dislikes, her interests in food, music, etc. Know how she behaves in particular situations. Dig up the background of her family and friends.
In brief, gather every information you get about her. Trust me, its gonna come handy.

2. After knowing her likes and dislikes, her good side and bad side, make sure she is the one for you. If possible, be 100% sure. We don't wanna ruin a girl's life.


3. Now you know that she is the one. She is 100% for you. Thats awsome. More like one step completed. Now is the crucial part. She must be 100% for you but not necessary that you are also 100% for her,  right?

Time to get your ass on track, we've got work to do boys.

3. The 'WHY' factor.
Think and write down all the possible reasons in your current lifestyle thats stopping her from liking you.

Im pretty sure that in most of your list the #1 thing would be that you don't look good enough.
Trust me guys, I wanted to find the truth behind this and interviewed some girls. Most of them college girls and others working women. Some of them were in a relationship and others were not.
But to my surprise most of them from both the category opted the same answer that is, they care more about the person's personality like honesty, sincerity, kindness, etc and behavior much more than looks. See, you've got a chance.

4. So you listed out the 'WHY' factors, now its time to get rid of all those factors one by one.
For example, you are an alcoholic, you drink all the time. And thats why this is in your why factor. So if you believe that she is more important than slow poisoning yourselves, and you choose her over alcohol, viola, you can do it... Even if you don't quit alcohol, you'll certainly be able to bring down its frequency.

Like this cut off all the bad things from your why factor list by quitting it.


  • Make sure you have a fit body - even though all girls might not admit it, they like boys with fit body. Even if you have a fit body, don't boast about it or even try to show off, let the ladies do the work and figure it out. Thats the best way. And once you have a nice physique, you'll be filled with confidence automatically.

  • Talk to her - Most of the guys who truly love a girl gets sort of nervous while you are around them. Even if you are nervous, just try not to get too creepy and go and start a conversation with her. I assure you that your nervousness is gonna go away eventually.

  • Most of those guys, who gather confidence from somewhere and decide to talk to her goes to her, starts a conversation with her and poof... Thats it, they are trapped coz now you have her attention but have no words to say but thats okay, you are not like others, coz you follow alpha's methods. Remember that homework I gave you?? Gather every information you get about her?? Well, thats gonna get you out of this situation that is if you've done your homework. 

  • Talking to her will also get you closer to her and you'll be able to understand her from within. But the one thing you need to take care when you are with her is, Never FAKE anything even if you are sure thats gonna impress her coz one day, she'll find out, so be who you are. Let her love the real you while you love the real her. 

  • Another point to take care of when you are having a conversation with her is that, "Be a good speaker, but a great listener" . Listen to what she has to say than what you wanna speak. It doesn't mean you need to sit without responding. You need to actively engage in that conversation but make sure she speaks more. 

  • If she speaks more, it is a proof that she is not bored around you so, thats a good thing and eventually you gain her trust. And when that level of trust increases, you are gonna have deeper conversations. And who knows, you might as well become the key to her chamber of secrets. Lets not stress on this one, but just try and make sure that you are the guy with whom she can share anything.

  • If possible,  try and become friends with her friends coz she might as well value their opinion about you. 

  • The next thing we are gonna set our eyes on is her family. I want you to find a way such that she is gonna invite you to her house. If you don't get how, email me or facebook me. I'm sure I can help you as I've helped many of my friends and guess what, most of the time, it works. And when you get her to invite you to her home, go. Try and be punctual. Don't keep her waiting.

  • Here is the crucial part, once you are in her home, make sure you spend less time with her. Yes i know, most of you might think that you have a great chance of having fun with her in her home and such stuff. I get it but trust me guys. Control yourselves. The first time you are at her home, you'll be under constant surveillance by the members of her family. So don't spend more time with her, instead, spend more time with her family. Get to know them and show them who you are. 

  • This is how you should behave the first and second time. And if you think her family doesn't trust you enough, keep this strategy ON. Once you've gained their trust, its time to hit the next level. You can also help her mom in the kitchen, her dad with his car, her brother with his video game and her sister with her doll. No matter what you do, get them to like you. Make them think you are family and are allowed in at any time be it day or night. But never exploit their freedom. 

  • Now, her view about you is excellent, her friends view is also the same, her family too likes you. So you've locked her from three sides. But do not propose YET. Never rush guys... Never. 

  • Now its time for more helping part. I want you to help her even before she asks you. This will make her observe that you are understanding and this is also gonna increase the trust part. She'll think and believe that, you are gonna be there for her when she needs you. Make sure you never break her trust towards you.
  • Give her her own time - Propose her, only if you think she is ready. Take it slow coz thats the only way to touch her heart. 




This note is for the guys out there. Guys, keep your personality. Stick to your principles. Well,  if you decide to alter one or two of em for her when its totally necessary, its bad,  but still its okay. But if you find yourself losing your personality for her, on her, you are no longer her partner but her slave. So, don't do it, if you feel that way, she is not your person or soul mate or whatever. Leave her immediately. If she understands and gets back to you apologizing, i suggest you give her one more chance. 

You should respect her and also she should respect you as well.  At least she should give you the respect you deserve. If not, command respect, if she still drags you around, leave her coz she is not the one. 

For me, the right moment to propose her is to love her. Love her more than she can take. Love her till her heart melts and that is the perfect time to propose her.

Guys its all about perfect timing. So. Don't rush, yet don't  delay. 

Give my methods a try and tell me how it works for you... 

For any quires, comment and if its too personal,  email me at abhiramkishore92@gmail.com

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